Helping You Understand Yourself More Clearly So You Can Live More Intentionally
Life doesn't come with a roadmap. Sometimes we find ourselves repeating the same patterns, feeling stuck in familiar places, or wondering how we ended up so far from the person we hoped to become.
Counseling can help you make sense of your experience, reconnect with what matters most, and move forward with greater clarity and intention.
Counseling for adults and couples navigating anxiety, relationship challenges, identity concerns, and life's transitions.
You Don't Have to Be Falling Apart to Seek Help.
Many of the people I work with are capable, responsible, and successful by most outward measures.
They're also exhausted.
They've spent years taking care of others, meeting expectations, solving problems, and pushing through difficult seasons. Yet beneath the surface, they may feel disconnected from themselves, uncertain about what comes next, or frustrated by patterns they can't seem to change.
You may recognize yourself in some of these experiences:
You feel stuck, even though you know something needs to change.
You keep repeating the same patterns in relationships, work, or daily life.
Anxiety, stress, or overwhelm have become your constant companions.
You know what you "should" do but struggle to follow through.
You've lost touch with who you are beneath the roles you play.
You're navigating a major life transition and trying to find your footing again.
From the outside, everything appears fine—but inside, something feels off.
If so, you're not alone. Counseling offers a space to slow down, make sense of your experience, and move forward with greater intention.
How I Work
I believe people change when they begin to see themselves more clearly, understand the patterns that have been shaping their lives, and realize they have more agency than they thought.
Together, we'll explore the experiences, beliefs, and strategies that helped you become who you are today—honoring the ways they've protected and shaped you while identifying where they may no longer serve you.
My approach integrates evidence-based counseling practices with guided self-discovery, practical skill-building, coaching, and meaningful action. Insight matters, but insight alone isn't enough. Lasting change happens when understanding is translated into choices that align with who you want to become.
Areas of Focus
I work with adults and couples facing a variety of concerns, including:
Anxiety and chronic stress
Relationship and communication challenges
Burnout and overwhelm
Life transitions and identity shifts
Men's concerns and emotional well-being
Veterans and first responders
Questions of purpose, meaning, and direction
Personal growth and self-understanding
Meet Lance
I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor, Marine Corps veteran, educator, and entrepreneur. Before becoming a therapist, I spent decades helping people navigate challenge, transition, and change. Those experiences continue to shape the way I approach counseling today—with curiosity, practicality, compassion, and a belief in people's capacity to grow.
The Becoming Company
At The Becoming Company, we believe that understanding your story doesn't trap you in it—it gives you the freedom to participate more intentionally in what comes next.
You may not have authored the opening chapters of your life.
But you don't have to surrender the pen.
Ready to begin?
Schedule a consultation today and take the first step toward authoring the next chapter of your becoming.